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A
pair of drinking buddies became friends after discovering they were married to
the same woman.
Daily
Mail carries the story of Chris Thomas and Peter Sherratt, both
47, met when they found they were both married to bigamist Karen Sherratt, 45.
One Wife, Two Husbands: Peter & Karen on their wedding day (L) ; Chris & Karen on
their wedding day (R) |
Mr
Thomas, a former RAF serviceman, said: 'It might seem odd to some people that
we get on so well.
'But
we have an ex-wife in common. We have had a shared experience too. She had us
both under her spell and our close friendship is a result of that.'
Sherratt,
an area manager for a food company, had already been married and divorced when
she met Mr Sherratt, from Swansea, in 2005.
Their
relationship blossomed and they were married within a year.
But
shortly after the wedding, Mr Sherratt starting having serious concerns when
the joint bank account he shared with his wife frequently crept into its
overdraft.
Just
a year since they were married, Mr Sherratt left his wife at their marital home
in Swansea.
Six
years later in 2012 Sherratt met Mr Thomas on a dating website – and he fell
for her quickly, just like Mr Sherratt had.
In a
similar way to Mr Sherratt, he proposed quickly - within three and a half
months. Only seven months since meeting Sherratt, the couple were married at
Cardiff's Holiday Inn.
But
there was one serious hitch - although Sherratt was separated from Mr Sherratt,
she had never formally divorced him and so they were still legally
married.
Mr
Thomas found out about the bombshell last December when he found a petition for
divorce from Mr Sherratt in his wife's laptop bag.
Devastated,
he took a copy and left it on the kitchen table for his wife to find, before
leaving their home in Swansea - the same one she had shared with her former
husband. He has since moved to Caerphilly.
He
then contacted Mr Sherratt to break the news to him.
He
said: 'I wanted him to know that I existed when I first found out.
'So I
let his solicitor know that Karen had remarried and was a bigamist.'
He
added: 'As soon as it was discovered she was still married, our wedding became
null and void. I'm thankful she has no claim over my home or assets but the
betrayal has shattered my confidence. 'I
don't trust my own judgement anymore and I'm off work with the stress of it
all.'
During
her sentencing at Cardiff Crown Court in June, Mr Recorder IWL Jones told her:
'It is rare for a case like this to come before the court, especially one
involving a woman.
'Bigamy
is clearly a serious offence that strikes at the heart of the marriage
system.
'I
have no doubt at all that you are a deceitful and dishonest woman and that Mr
Thomas is the victim. You
cried during the course of this hearing, but I am by no means at all convinced
that you are remorseful.'
After
she was jailed, Mr Sherratt and Mr Thomas met to discuss their respective
marriages to the bigamist.
Mr
Thomas said: 'After the trial we became quite friendly and had some long chats
over the phone about what we'd been through and the kind of woman she was.
'After
that it was pretty clear we had this bonding experience and we were going to
be mates for a long time.
'His
friendship is the only good thing to come out of this hell.'
Now
the pair meet regularly for a beer and a game of pool.
Mr Sherratt
said: 'It's been almost seven years since I was in Karen's grip so I have moved
on and found a new partner who I love and trust and that's a whole different
experience for me.
'I
look at Chris now and I can see his pain and anger and I've been there too, so
I can hopefully help him to move on past his upset.
'But it is hard. You never
get over the deception and feelings of being a fool.'
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