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Mwase, 14, may look like a child, but her community sees her as an adult
because of a sexual initiation she attended at age 10. (Photo: Beenish Ahmed;
Image source: The Atlantic)
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The custom in Malawi of sending girls to sexual initiation camps is just
as harmful as child marriage and must end if the nation is serious about
protecting girls' rights, a teenager who escaped being a child bride said. Memory Banda, 18, said the tradition of early sexual initiation, seen as
a way of preparing pubescent girls for marriage, was forcing girls to have sex
and exposing them to the risk of HIV infection.
Thomson Reuters
Foundation report continues:
Banda said even if girls were not sent to the camps, they may receive a
night time visit from an older man.
Known as a "hyena", the man sent by village elders has sex
with girls as young as nine to prepare them for marriage.
"It's forced sex," Banda, 18, told TRFN in an interview late on Thursday. "Most girls end up being
pregnant, and many drop out of school."
In February, Malawi passed a law banning child marriage and raised the
minimum age for girls to marry to 18 in a move hailed by campaigners seeking an
end to the practice that affects half of all girls in the country.
Banda's own sister was married at 11 to a man in his thirties, who had
made her pregnant during a sexual initiation.
But Banda escaped her sister's fate because she was living with an aunt
who supported her resistance to early marriage. Banda later joined the Girls
Empowerment Network, a Malawi-based charity that for years tried to get
lawmakers to end child marriage.
Banda said the priority now was to ensure the new law was enforced and
to encourage village leaders to speak out against early sexual initiation.
"The law will make a big difference and have a big impact, but only
if we work with communities and girls to address the issues openly," Banda
said on the sidelines of the Skoll World Forum on Social Entrepreneurship.
Malawi has shown signs of progress already with a growing openness to
discussing girls' sexual rights and dozens of communities in the southern
African country banning early sexual initiation, she added.
Every year 15 million girls are married as children with one in three
girls in the developing world married before they are 18, according to campaign
group Girls Not Brides.
Critics say early marriage deprives girls of an education, increases the
risk of domestic violence, death or serious injuries if they have babies before
their bodies are ready.
Yet the practice persists
because some societies view girls as a financial burden, others believe a girl
should marry as early as possible to maximize her fertility.
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