Tuesday, December 09, 2014

Huge Faux-pas In The Big Apple: The Moment Sweaty Basketball Star Lebron James Breached Protocol By Hugging Duchess Of Cambridge


NBA’s ‘King’ LeBron James caused an eye-brow raising moment when met real royalty.

Daily Mail reports the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge met LeBron James after an NBA game in Brooklyn, New York. The 6ft 8in Cleveland Cavaliers player put his arm around the Duchess as they posed for pictures. 'It's an American being too touchy feely and he shouldn't have done it,' etiquette expert William Hanson said


The 6ft 8in basketball star also appeared alongside the royals in a sweaty top, which some may regard as bad form. 

Mr Hanson added: 'A shower would have been preferable but he had just finished a game – so even more reason for him not have opened his pits by lifting his arm and placing it around Her Royal Highness!' 

HOW TO GREET A MEMBER OF THE ROYAL FAMILY

The Buckingham Palace website says: 'There are no obligatory codes of behaviour when meeting The Queen or a member of the Royal Family, but many people wish to observe the traditional forms.

'For men this is a neck bow (from the head only) whilst women do a small curtsy. Other people prefer simply to shake hands in the usual way.

'On presentation to The Queen, the correct formal address is "Your Majesty" and subsequently "Ma'am".

'For male members of the Royal Family the same rules apply, with the title used in the first instance being "Your Royal Highness" and subsequently "Sir".

'For other female members of the Royal Family the first address is conventionally "Your Royal Highness" followed by "Ma'am" in later conversation.'

Mr Hanson explained that as an American citizen LeBron James, when greeting the Duke or Duchess of Cambridge would not have to bow 'as he is not one of their subjects'.

But he added: 'Many Americans, and other non-Brits, do like to still bow or curtsy out of respect for the institution or the people, but it is personal choice.'

'The ideal royal bow is from the neck, not the waist. Ideal curtsy is just one foot behind the other to perform a small bob, dipping the head at the same time, hands by the side - no need to pull out the skirt!'

Eyebrows were also raised in 2012 when centuries-long protocol was broken by Michelle Obama putting her arm around the Queen at a Buckingham Palace G20 reception.

Finding herself next to Mrs Obama, the Queen remarked on their height difference. As she did so, her hand edged towards the small of Mrs Obama's back. Mrs Obama responded - and even rubbed the Queen's shoulder - before both women moved gently apart after about ten seconds.

The sight of the Queen publicly hugging another woman astonished other guests. An onlooker said: 'It was a pretty simultaneous gesture. We couldn't believe what we were seeing.'

'A mutual and spontaneous display of affection and appreciation,' was how a Buckingham Palace spokesman hastened to describe it.

But the protocol concerning the sovereign has been set in stone for generations. 'Whatever you do,' courtiers are apt to warn, 'don't touch the Queen.'

There was furore in 1992 when the then Australian prime minister, Paul Keating, put his arm round the Queen's waist at Canberra's Parliament House, and found himself lampooned as 'the Lizard of Oz' for his faux-pas.

And everyone remembers the expression of frozen distaste on the Queen's face at the opening of the Millennium Dome when Tony Blair seized hold of the royal hand and shook it up and down during the singing of Auld Lang Syne.

A royal source, however, denied that royal protocol exists.

He said: 'When members of the royal family meet people they want them to feel as comfortable as possible. There's no such thing as royal protocol.'

But despite this the Buckingham Palace website offers instructions for greeting members of the royal family.

It says: 'There are no obligatory codes of behaviour when meeting The Queen or a member of the Royal Family, but many people wish to observe the traditional forms.
'For men this is a neck bow (from the head only) whilst women do a small curtsy. Other people prefer simply to shake hands in the usual way.'

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